Archive for April 5th, 2005

Sure, why not. I’m a nerd, after all.

Tuesday, April 5th, 2005

1. Post a list of 10 TV fandoms/shows and comics you follow (current or cancelled!)
2. Have your friends list guess your favourite CHARACTER from each show
3. When guessed bold the line and write a sentence explaining why.
4. Post in your own blog.

1. Dungeons & Dragons cartoon
2. Superfriends
3. Ripping Friends
4. Home Movies Coach McGuirk because he’s the worst soccer coach in the world. Jason is a very close second, and they’re voiced by the same guy.
5. Justice League Red Tornado! For obvious reasons.
6. Star Trek TOS Spock or Kirk or Bele or the guy who designed the M5 are all acceptable.
7. Star Wars IG-88. I mean just look at him!
8. Simpsons
9. Batman Mr Freeze is coooool. He’s not a typical supervillain (at least not as portrayed in the animated series - plus he’s voiced by Michael Ansara).
10. Spaceship Zero

To cool for drool

Tuesday, April 5th, 2005

When I was young, it wasn’t “cool” to be in love. Certainly not to show it. Love was for suckers after all. Love was what they sold us on TV. And anyway, falling in love always lead to heartbreak, so it wasn’t worth it, and anyone who was in love was weak! Therefore, showing affection in public, especially to your friends, was an embarrassment. It simply wasn’t done.

Happily I grew out of that, though it took a little time. Tinessa also gave me some wisdom while we were dating. She said something to the effect of ‘if somebody gags at or is sickened by or otherwise doesn’t like public displays of affection, that’s his problem,’ and she was right. Obviously I’m not talking about pulling your pants off at a dinner party. Although….

I’ve always been a romantic (and even as a nihilist, I’ve been a romantic nihilist) so I don’t feel like I’m going back on anything now in saying that love is, in fact, good. Just like pineapple, it tastes good, and it’s good for you. And it grows on trees. And there’s nothing wrong with celebrating it. I’ve certainly had times when I scoffed at love - especially when I’m bitter over a recent breakup, and that’s natural, to some extent. But I think it’s selling oneself short to adopt a “holding hands and kissing should be kept behind closed doors” attitude as a general modus vivendi.

It’s true, love has made fools of us all. But that’s nothing to be ashamed of. I only regret that I had such a difficult time embracing it.